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If you suck at boundaries, believe me I get it!

I used to suck at boundaries too!

Heck, I used to suck at relationships, period!

Thankfully, this dreadful part of my life is behind me and now I have the most connected, thriving relationship. 

    Bonjour et bienvenue !

Don’t worry, I’m not going to talk to you in French - although it would be much easier for me…

My name is Olivier Bessaignet, I’m French, and I went on a 20-year journey from South of France to California to figure out relationships. Now I live with my wife Jordan in Reno, Northern Nevada, and we have a beautiful little boy named Cedar. Jordan is a sweet and powerful half African American and half Native American woman. She was born in Montana and raised in Las Vegas. 

Olivier & Jordan

Jordan, Olivier & Baby Cedar

Did you know that a good boundary always starts with “You’re free to…”?

I know it sounds weird. But believe me, there’s a good reason for it!

You're free to...

If you want to know why I always start my boundaries with saying that, simply check your inbox and look for the message from Olivier @RelationshipAlkemy, subject line: “Why you suck at boundaries! (not your fault) Ch 1 of 5…

In that message, you’ll find the link to your free ebook, and a link to a 60 sec video explaining why a good boundary always starts with “You’re free to…”


Talk to you very soon. 

Olivier and Jordan Bessaignet


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